ChineseFootReflexology.com began with one article I wrote about how to naturally get over a cold fast using a simple 5-minute Chinese Reflexology routine that I created out of necessity. When I wrote the article, I had a cold that had bypassed the runny nose phase and had gone straight to a cough.
The reflexology routine helped me recover fast so that I could get back to being a full-time, fully present mom to my toddler. I also use this reflexology routine to prevent a cold. As soon as I start to feel under the weather, I simply rub my feet and I’m fine the next day.
I started getting cocky in my ability to pull myself back from the brink and I forgot the most important thing about cold prevention–respecting your body and spirit by not pushing yourself too hard. It’s understandable. There’s just so much I want to do, but I have so little time to do it all since my two year old son is my focus right now.
In order to accomplish what I want to do, including writing articles for this website, I stay up late. About a month ago, I was preparing a teleseminar for a new business (website consulting for heart-based entrepreneurs) and I stayed up past 1am three nights in a row.
My body gave me the early warning signs that I was on the brink of catching a cold, but I ignored it. I didn’t even rub my reflexology points. I thought, “I can do this later.”
Guess what? I got a cold. And it wasn’t just your run-of-the-mill cold. This one hit me like a typhoon. I was so sick that I couldn’t get out of bed for three days. My nose was running like a garden hose. I have never used so many tissues in my life.
When I did start rubbing my reflexology points for a cold, it seemed like they weren’t working as quickly as normal. While the reflexology prevented me from getting worse, I didn’t notice any measurable improvement in my symptoms for two days.
And then, I had one lucid thought: “Transform phlegm”. That’s a Traditional Chinese Medicine term to refer to clearing excess mucous in the body. I added one additional point to my cold-busting routine and it did the trick. I started getting better.
There was also one critical shift that I made to accelerate my recovery and I’m going to share both the additional reflexology point and the mind shift with you. Even if you don’t have a runny nose, you can use this mind shift to help your body’s natural healing process for any situation.
The Chinese Reflexology Point for a Snotty Nose–aka How to Transform Phlegm With the Spleen Point
In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), the Spleen is responsible for the “transformation and transportation of water”. That’s one of those quirky TCM terms that basically says that a healthy functioning Spleen channel is needed to maintain the balance and flow of fluid in your body.
If you’ve got an excessively runny nose, then you’ve got excess phlgem (water) in your body and to clear this imbalance, you need to stimulate the Spleen point.
The Chinese Reflexology point for the spleen is located on the sole of the left foot. If you draw a line horizontally across your foot at the midway point between the tip of the big toe and the base of your heel, then the Spleen point is located just above it. It’s about the size of your thumb pad.
Place your left thumb above the halfway line and in line under your “ring” toe (second last toe next to the baby toe). That gives you a good guesstimate of where the Spleen point is located.
Use the knuckle of your index finger to press into the Spleen point and rub in an up and down motion (from toe to heel) for about 30 seconds to a minute.
The Mind Shift for Wellness
Rubbing the Spleen point helped me get over my cold faster and clear my runny nose, but what really made the biggest difference was a shift I made in my thinking.
You know how when you’re feeling sick, your mind tends to fixate on things? Well, I was fixated on the colour of my mucous. In Chinese Medicine, the colour of your mucous is the key to diagnosing a cold. I had a TCM professor who would become very concerned if someone had yellow mucous. In her words, “Clear phlegm is okay. Yellow phlegm is very bad. It means you have an infection.”
That’s what I fixated on. I kept looking at the gobs and gobs of yellow mucous coming out of my nose and thinking, “I have an infection.” Clearly (pun intended), this did not help my recovery and I apologize for the TMI (too much information).
I knew that focusing on my mucous would not help me get better faster. It made me feel worse because I judged my body for failing to clear the infection. I felt like I had let myself down and all I could see was that I was sick, soooo sick.
What I did to start thinking more positively was to remember a Hoʻoponopono mantra, “I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. Thank you”. Every time I wallowed in how miserable I was feeling, I would remember this mantra and say it to myself and my body.
I’m sorry (I pushed my body so hard). Please forgive me. I love you (directed to my body). Thank you (to my body). I must have repeated the mantra at least 100 times the first day, but it did the trick. I started to get better fast.
On Monday, I was so sick, I couldn’t get out of bed and was awake for just two hours the entire day. On Saturday, I was going to a concert.
OK, So What’s Destiny Got to Do With It?
I really believe that when there’s something major (aka illness/injury) going on, your body is trying to tell you something that your mind is doing a good job of ignoring or avoiding. In my case, I hadn’t been sick in ages, so I knew I had to take a look at what was going on in the rest of my life.
Why did I push myself so hard? What was I avoiding?
You may have noticed that I didn’t send out a Point of the Month for April. I feel bad about it and have to remind myself: I’m sorry. I forgive you. I love you and I thank you.
I tell myself that I had good reasons for not sending out a newsletter–I was sick, we were away for two weeks visiting family in Canada, etc. But the truth is, I had ample time to write my newsletter. I was avoiding it and the cold was a physical manifestation of my avoidance.
If I look deeper and am truly honest with myself, the reason I was procrastinating is because I was scared. I feel like I’m on the cusp of living my destiny. I am destined to be a great teacher and healer and to reach millions of people.
Yeah, that scares me and that is why I got sick. I am avoiding my own destiny because it scares me. If I let go of this resistance and allow myself to be who I am, I know I will stay healthy and thrive.
If your body is sending you signals, I invite you to dig deeper to reveal what is going on at an emotional and spiritual level. Ask yourself:
- What emotions am I feeling right now?
- Is there something I need or want to do, but that I’m not doing?
- What can I do to move in the direction that my body is telling me to go?
P.S. Watch for my Point of the Month in the next issue of Amazing Feet. You’ll know how long I resisted by how many days pass from the writing of this article to the sending of my newsletter.